Ghar se dor jao…to aksar ghar kei ahmyet batane koi na koi yaad aksar dheeme kadamo saath chalee hei aate hain…..
Paris….suna to tha kei eskee har shaam mei pyar hawao mei ghulata hai……shyaad ehsaas abhee soyee hai…to nazaree maine eifel tower kei chaka chond kei taraf ghuma lei….haan bohut ucha…..jagmagata..insaani khubi ko darsaata…sach much sunder tha….aaj ka den en ithaas bharee imaraato kei naam sahin…….itihass to nazar aata hai..per yaha wartman kaha hai….nazaree meri ushee dhondh rahee thee….
Bhagatee dhodatee sei jindagi….pal bhar ko mujhe mumbai kei daudatee jindagi yaad aaye….yahan kei metro kei raftar yakenan jaada hai…..per jindagi logo kei saath yaha bhee kheche chalee ja rahee hai….
Ab naya kaya dhondho es sahar mei……..phir wahin bhag dodh….ek nayee imaraat aur us se joda….sach joth sa ek atit….aaj jindagi se milna behtar ho…..to raha maine sahar kei galiyon kei pakdee…..aaj bohut deno baad kisi ko apne saamne pardesh mei apna juban boltei suna to kadam meri wahin thahar gayai…..socha thodee der kuch baate hei kar lo….usne french mei mujh se kuch kaha..maine hindi mei bola..to uskee chahre per ek mushkurahat aa gayee…..bola bibi kaha se ho….mai sochanee lagee …itna apna pan….phir baato ka daur suro hua…bech bech mei uskee grahak aate to mai apnee leye uskee dukan mei kuch kapadee dekhanee lag jaate….ek pal ko laga hei nahin kei hum watan nahin jis se mai baat kar rahee ho….thode der baad coffee bana kar laya aur ek pal ko bhee ye khayal nahin aaya kei ghar se bahar pardesh mei khadee ho….apnee ghar baar, pariwar, gaun, dosto sab kei baare mei batlaya usnee….mei ye nahin samjh paaye kei mujhese baat kar wo jaada khush hai ya mai……ghanata bhar beet gaya aur na uskee baate khatam huyee aur na mera chav…..kisi ne tabhee poccha us se..kis desh se ho…usnee jhijaktee hue jawab deya us pardeshi ko…..maine sawal bhee suna tha aur uska jawab bhee….khud ko apne desh ka bhee nahin kaha…kyon?..abhee kuch der pehlai to apne gaun desh kei baare mei bata mujhee itna khush tha..aur ab doje hei pal ye joth kyon…wo ab mujhse nazaree bachanee kei nakam koshish kar raha tha…. uskee aankho mei jawab shaf jalak raha tha….wo bebasi sab kuch kah rahee thee….mai us jawab se jayada uske baare mei soch rahee thee….kaya gujar rahee hogee us per…..mai jatanee lagee maano maine kuch suna nahin…..thodee der baad uskee aankho se aanso giranee lagee…..uskee aanso sab kuch kah chuki thee…..phir bola….ye bhee koi jindagi hai…aise jindagi se to maut bhalee hai….per ghar waalon ka khayal aa jaata hai….majbori na hotee bibi to ghar laut chaltee…..warna apna watan jaisa bhee ho….kisi fakar nahin…..haan shain kehtai ho tum….apnai watan kei garv per seena taan khadee hotee hai to uskee sharmindegee per apna sar bhee jhukana padega……kuch der aur baat kei us se aur phir kuch kapadee chunee…bill katanee laga to bola aap thodee kam daam de do……maine kaha nahin jitna banata hai le lo..to bola….es dukan per naukari karta ho bibi…..tumhe aur kuch nahin de sakta…..maine muskuratee hue bola…..jo tumharee khushi…..tumsee baat kar kei laga kisi apne se bohut deno baad mili ho……bola bibi dubara aao to milkar jaana.
Us pal se pehlai kabhi ye khayal aaya hei nahin kei khud ko apnee pehchan se alag kehnee per kaya gujartee hain…..kabhi kisi kei aise majboree na ho…
Flight shaam kei thee..socha kei thoda waqt aur gujar lo….kuch kharidaare kar lo……aur shyaad kuch aur insaani rishto ko jee lo…..ek dukan mei gayee……kuch kapadee chunee..tabhee dukan daar bol pada ..kaha se hain aap…maine batalaya ..to bola….sadak per jo ye haathe kei pooja kar rahee hai ye sab log kyon kar rahee hain….haan aaj ganesh pujan hai….to hindu milkar ganesh yatra nikaal rahee hai…..maine unhee pooja kei baare mei batalaya…to bola…unhonee ye prasad keh kar deya hai….hum log to use nahin samjhatee…..per naariyal samjh kar kha letai….. hai……ab pardesh mei yaheen sab to bhai chara hai…..phir wahee baatao ka daur aage badha…..kaisa hai aap ka desh…kaya waisa jaisa hamaree aakhbaro mei lekha hota hai…..kuch maine batalaya…..kuch unhonee sunaya……tabhee ek purtgalee ladkee aaye aur dukaan mei dosree kaam karnee waale ladkai se bolee…where are you from….and to my surprise the guy gave a genuine answer….immediately she replied that in your country womens are not treated well..…..and perhaps this was the situation which the guy in previous shop was avoiding……I said being descently wrapped in clothes is not a problem if those people willingly accept it as a part of their culture….but if they are being forced to do so…then that is a problem…..but nowdays people are being educated so hopefully they will overcome their problems someday. I do not know what made her a bit irritated with my reply and she said ..ok… fine…then…i am sorry. I do not know what the problem is all about and was not at all trying to ignore the fact. But at that moment my only interest was just to protect the moral of the guy standing their with a silent acknowledgment. So that next time atleast he would not think of saying that he belong to a different country. I do not know whether I did a right thing or not……we people continued with our discussion but I could sense a change in the attitude of the shop owner and then he started talking about his personal life……living their for last 20 yrs or so…….earning for the family back home…..his ways and approach may be having his own reasons….so i ignored weighing them and was listening to him….at the end he said….we will be glad if you can join us for lunch ..i said i have to take my flight today…so have to rush back….Then i gave him the jacket and the top i have picked from his store for the bill. He said pay me for the jacket only and this top is a gift for you. I requested him to add that to bill. But then his words left no space for arguments. He said …kaya es bhai ko itna haq bhee nahin dhengee ko wo aapko apnee behan samjh kar kuch de sakee…..i was speechless….. I just said….thanks…..phir wo bola…aap to bohut taalim haasil ho…phir bhee ek baat bolonga….hamaree to majboree hai…..kei na ghar kei hain aur na pardesh kei….ab to lautana chahee bhee to darwajee nahin……..agar aap kei aise koi majbore na ho……to ghar kei shadee roti se badhkar kuch bhee nahin…
Lautee hue mai soch rahee thee….kaya lekar chale mai yaha se…..haan yahee to wo pal hain…..jo hame insaan honee ka har pal ehsaas dilate hai….kehne ko to rishta shyaad koch bhee na ho……per mehsos karo…to wo jo dil se suro ho…aur dil mei hamesha kei leye bash jaaye.
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